Maturity.......
When we all were small children, we used to do what our heart says. Never think twice, no distractions from what we want, once a kid wants something come what may he will never be satisfied with anything less worthy than it, or even more...he just wants what he desires.. We used to tell lies, to hide many things from our parents, there comes a time when each child has a priority for the peer group for those childhood games we even cheat our parents.. We used to make stories for our faults..And even though our parents could clearly see through all our fake and senseless stories, still they pretend as if they believe in us and we are more confident than ever... Its like watching somebody make a bridge to the stars, though we know that it is not possible but it all looks so beautiful that we dont feel like stopping and just sit back and watch...

Similar things happen when we grow up, only thing being that now the people whom we are trying to fool are not our parents, but our peer group, seniors, teachers, professors, bosses...can be anyone. And this is a fact that when ever we are trying to pretend what we are not, it is quiet easily visble, how hard we may try. Sometimes still, people who we are trying to fool let us fool them not because it is all beautiful to watch, but the reason may be something else this time.... Being fooled might not be that harmful, they might not think it worthy to stop us, they might be pretending to be fooled, they might not be that intelligent as they used to be when they were kids.... or any reason... But the person who succeeds in fooling is finally called as being matured..

If we take a deep look, being mature is then completely dependent on either circumstances, or degrading of some people's instincts, but it has nothing to do with us being intellectually more developed , haveing more experience, beacause that is what more or less we all have been gaining since we stepped on mother earth...So maturity is not that positive asset as we think it is.. :) :)