Friendship.......

The most beautiful, amazing, soetime painful, sometime refreshing, at times hatred, at times loving, sometimes searching for new faces, sometimes for old ones.....but at the end we gotta be friends yaar ...This is what friendship is...It is a bond without any bondages. .. No expectations, just doing it because it makes me feel good, yet not being selfish, it is a divine feeling... believe it or not.. it is !!!!!

People say that " A friend in deed is a friend indeed", but I don't actually believe in it. Coz when we are in pain, we don't have that much brains to get that the person who is with us is faking all the care or what... so it may just be a deposit in our favour banks to withdraw it at some later time, or some people might be our true friends, but we really cannot figure it out at that time. But when we are happy, on the top of the world, we are in love with ourselves, then we can see the true face of everybody around us , and know who is friend and who is not.... Believe me or not, but you gotta think twice, or thrice or how many times u feel comfortable, before selecting who your friend is. And when you are done with the selection process, never ever think again... coz it makes life complicated.... But we gotta have a protective cage around us, and let only those people in who we want to, coz this world is no more honest and considerate as it used to be....its cruelity is growing day by day... !! But friendship is the only true thing remaining in the ruins of old beautiful world we had, or we dream of having... !

What is an accomplished life?
Which universe do we live in?
Is life a mathematical equation?
Where does motivation come from?
Who's defining the new geopolitical map?
How can we observe what we can't see?
Can we design the air we breathe?
What's the economic impact of terrorism?
Should we fear faith?
What makes big cities function?

Love & Marriage Explained beautifully
A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and come back.
But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders...may be there is a bigger one later.
Then he saw another bigger one... but may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.
Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.
So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.
The teacher told him, ".this is love.. you keep looking for a better one, but when later you realize, you have already miss the person..."
*"What is marriage then?" the student asked.
The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."
The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.
The teacher told him, "this time you bring back a corn... you look for one that is just nice, and you have faith and believe this is the best one you get... this is marriage."


"Changing the face" can change nothing.
But "Facing the Change" can change everything.

* Taken from forward mail

Some events happen to just be cherished as a good memmory... Like when rain falls on flowers after a harsh sunny day, smell of the rain , that first rainbow....Some experiences cannot be just taken with you even with the that best quality camera of yours...They just need to be absorbed as such and kept in a secret place in your heart to cherish whenever you want to... We may give flowers to our loved ones, because they look so good on that plant, but once we have plucked it, it starts to decay and will never regain its original freshness... Somethings should just be left as they are and we should just remember them as good memmories of some nice time we had while experiencing them..... Similarly some people in life should just be there in life as they always were, the more we try to posses them, the farther away we get from them.....

Politicians, reporters, journalists...all of them say that they fight for some or other ongoing issues, but thinking rationally if these issues actually did never exist, what will these people do. So they just project the issues to the world, or sometimes even end up making them ,coz becuase these controversies they will be jobless.So will they ever help in making a progress to peace...my answer is NO.. they cannot coz none of us will cut the tree on which we are standing, not make a grave for our own.....

Neway...who cares, these were some random thoughts occupying my head on this lonely boring sunday afternoon. I really hate being sick..it just takes all the ever existing enthusiasm from my life. And most of all being lonely is the worst punishment anyone could ever get.. And I now a days m feeling lonely even amongst a crowd of people which sucks even more.. I just have to get over this stage somehow.. Its just that sometimes nothing just seems to be right, every person around looks like your worst enemy, looks like nobody just likes you, you are worth nothing, and in every move of the society these traits seem to be more prevalent. Who doesn´t gets into this situation for once, all that matters is to get out of them more strongly then u ever were...These tests of time only help you c u as a person , make u more tough...

And finally,nothing can be right if there are no "wrongs"...

Introvert.........

I'm a complete introvert at heart. I mean I try soo much to not make it obvious, but all in vain. I mean it never helps, it always does make the situation worst. I just have so many hidden thoughts in my mind. I always thrive to get them out of me, but can never do so. I always end up expressing my emotions by either being too casual or too vulunerable. And this always make people think of me as some psycho. And I always kinda know it, still I cannot help.

I'm a liar...I'm a fake...

But I know u can't like me when there is nothing left to blame....