Why do we give so much importance to somebody in life, that we ourselves become invisible… Yeah sometimes in life we end up doing that… At least I have gone through this phase.. It is generally noticed that we do this out of concern, or affection for other person, or when we want to be like that person, reasons may be many..
Is it justified.. ? This is a rather random topic, but of unique importance in life. Suppose there are two persons A and B. Now there can be three cases. First case, A can be a great admirer of B, or is highly inspired by B, or is in love with B.. Second case, same can be the case with B for A. Finally, third case is when both equally respect each other.
The third case is most favorable but rare case…In either of first or second case, one of the person ends up destroying his/her life or rather I should say waste the precious moments of life. And no it is NOT justified in any situation, at any place, and neither in any scenario. We start giving importance to some other person because we find it meaningful in the beginning, and we think logically we do it for our own comfort, because we feel good to do that, and in many ways we want to be like that.. But as time passes, and if it is the second or first case, one of the person starts feeling the ignorance, but still to preserve the old feelings and if A is honest, A will keep on having same feelings for B. And now A will be spending more time on B, because he/she will add on the time he/she is now spending on thinking that why is the feeling not mutual between him/her and B. And then he will also think of many other things along side, relate himself/herself to many events. And all this time is spend just for B, directly or indirectly.. So finally A gets into the situation, donating major chunk of time for B, which B is not even aware of. Slowly A stops thinking about himself/herself……….. !! And here A should put a STOP. Because If we see initially it all started in personal interest of A, and ends up destroying A, so it should better be put to STOP to prevent further damage….But most of As in this world don’t realize this, and also there are not enough Bs who help As realize this coolly and calmly……. So life goes on….And finally a C will come in life of A and help A realize of the mistakes … But that would be too late…SO better try and forget it as soon as possible…. !!
P.S : May be I messed up the whole thing with A,B,C,,.. etc, but the basic idea is conveyed … J Be Happy..
